What makes the great great? This question haunted me for years, and I suspect that most of us, at one time or another, contemplate this same question. However, due to fear we often look the other way. Yet, one day, for me, desire for success won over the fear of the unknown, and I set out on a journey to discover the answer to what makes a great leader. I wanted to claim it for myself.
What makes Michael Jordan Michael Jordan? How did Bill Gates achieve so much? I kept asking myself, “What do they know that I don’t know?” We all have the same potential, so what is this catalyst to greatness?
It was this journey of research that led me to identify what I call the Seven Q’s (Qualities) of Greatness. I will share them with you and some pragmatic strategies too, in hopes that you will claim your greatness, for yourself and for your contribution to others.
Q One: Self-awareness
All accomplishment comes from self – for it’s your thinking that yields your outcomes. Billie Jean King, a world-class tennis star, said “Self-awareness is key to being a champion.” I believe she is right.
Pay attention to your thoughts as thinking is the most powerful force on earth. One confidence comes from our thoughts, our decisions come from our thoughts, and our behavior is also a result of our thoughts. So, it’s time to accept the responsibility of managing your thoughts. Notice when self-sabotaging thoughts come in, acknowledge them and say “STOP” or “NO” in a way that cancels the thought. You don’t want to allow that self-defeating thought to record in your brain. I’ll say it again – you can and must manage your thoughts.
Q Two: Purpose
To know your purpose, you have to quiet your mind to listen to your internal knowing self. In this quiet state, ask yourself questions like, “What is my most enjoyable achievement? What would I do for a living if making money was not a factor? What am I doing when hours pass like minutes?” Looking at the answers to these questions is a great start to discovering your purpose.
Have you seen the movie ‘The Matrix’ or The Matrix Reloaded?” Although the story in these movies seem to be about an action superhero who is fighting for good in a high-tech world, the movie’s real intention is purpose. The main character, Neo, is on a journey to learn who he is and to claim his greatness. My favorite scene is when Neo is surrounded by his opponent and his opponent says these words, “It’s purpose that connect us. It’s purpose that pulls us, guides us and drives us. It’s purpose that defines us.” I encourage you to watch or re-watch these movies for the messages of purpose.
Q Three: Vision
Norman Vincent Peale said, “Hold the image of the life you want and that will become fact.” No success is achieved without first believing the achievement is possible and real. I am sure that….
- Jackie Joyner Kersey, the Olympic gold medalist in track and field, believed she could overcome her disability and be the fastest female runner in the world.
- Thomas Edison believed he could invent the light bulb, even on the 9,999th attempt.
- The founding fathers of the United States of America believed in a new government, one based on freedom.
Q Four: Discipline
Nature thrives on discipline; routines are a healthy part of life. Look at the seasons: the rebirth of spring brings flowers; summer holds the heat and the time for play in the water; fall shows its beauty in the majesty of the color in the changing leaves; and winter is for rest and fun in the snow. Routine is predictable and comfortable and efficient.
Our habits create us. As John Maxwell, says “the secret of success is in your daily habits.” You can create the habits that make you better. Remember, as you go through this change process, it takes the commitment of repetitive action to develop a new habit.
Q Five: Relationships
Each day that I live, I grow in the understanding of how much power relationships have to our decision-making. Those nearest to you have the most influence. Be intentional about who you spend your time with; select mentors, coaches, trainers, and advisors that have your best interests in mind. And carefully select your friends.
Q Six: Plan and Write It Down
After you embrace you purpose and vision, commit yourself to discipline and healthy relationships, then you are ready to craft your action plan. Your plan needs short-term goals and long-term goals with financial and physical aspects. In your mind you see the horizon, now you can see the steps. One of my favorite ways to create a plan is to sequester myself at the beach for a weekend and create the work.
Q Seven: Action
Break your plan down into items that are doable in small chunks. Smaller items keep you from feeling overwhelmed and give you opportunity to get them completed more easily. Know that your completed items combine in your realized dreams. I guarantee you will be amazed at what you accomplish in a year’s time if you perform one action per day on your goals.
There you have it. In this article, I detailed a decade of study to answer the question, “What makes the great great?” I challenge you to manage your thoughts, find your purpose, embrace it, plan it, and live it.
Claim your greatness.
Dianne Garrett, 2004